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If You’re Not Fine — What Actually Helps?

Last time, many clinicians acknowledged something we don’t often say out loud:

“I’m not fine.”

What comes next?

In healthcare, the default response to stress is endurance — push through, adjust, work harder. But evidence shows burnout is driven primarily by system-level factors, not personal failure.

That creates a tension clinicians know well:

You can’t always change the system. In many settings, clinicians are expected to adapt to environments that were never built for sustainability. But continuing that way comes at a cost.

 

What Clinicians Are Trying

Across settings, clinicians describe trying small, pragmatic adjustments — not dramatic overhauls:

  • Setting clearer boundaries around after-hours charting
  • Delegating or optimizing team workflows
  • Reducing non-essential commitments
  • Taking protected time off (when possible)
  • Seeking peer support — formally or informally

Some report meaningful improvement. Others describe only temporary relief in a high-pressure environment.

 

The Reality Check

There’s no single fix.

Organizational strategies — including workflow redesign, staffing support, and leadership engagement — have a greater impact than individual interventions alone.

But those changes are often slow, and clinicians still need ways to function now.

 

Quick Reflection

Which of these feels most true for you right now?

1 - Small changes have helped

2 - Small changes help, but only temporarily

3 - Nothing I’ve tried has made a meaningful difference

4 - I haven’t had the bandwidth to try anything different

(Comment with a number — share more if you’re comfortable.)

What has helped you manage day-to-day stress recently — even in small or imperfect ways? Or what have you tried that didn’t work as expected?

  • 1h
    I typically start with a long run or hike to clear my mind and this usually helps. This takes little time and can be done every day. I will also spend time with family. Getting away on even a short trip helps a lot (even planning a trip that I might or might not take helps). All of these things together can make a big difference for me.
  • 14h
    Need to compartmentalize life wether its work or out of it ! you have to define that this particular aspect of life is worth this much time effort and hassle and able to switch off and move on to the next have the figure out things are that in your control and you are responsible for and the one you are not and move on ! For me playing tennis , squash and working out are the stress beater as long as i am able to indulge in them at my will rest does not matter !:))
  • Yesterday
    Exercise, walking my dogs, and deep breathing.
  • 2d
    Exercise, golf and fishing.
  • 2d
    Small changes are helpful but usually it all falls under your own personal ethics and work load. There will be stressful days and there will be non stressful days. The key is to be calm during stressful days and not to set a exception for non busy days
  • 2d
    I think it's important to know your self worth and maintain your self esteem. If things are going poorly at work then look for another position. Don't delude yourself into thinking things are going to get better. Line up some options. Remember that you have a lot to offer. Don't be afraid to leave - you are privileged to be a physician and you will find your place- you just have to look for it.
  • 3d
    I think it's important to separate work place stress from overall life stress, depression and anxiety. Of course, there is an overlap. IF issues appear to be mostly work place related it's good to see if this is burnout (not taking to colleagues, being short/brief/terse with patient, isolating ones self) vs moral injury. I do like this term of moral injury where you are asked to do a task without adequate resources. Maybe you have too short of lives or not enough resources etc etc
  • 3d
    #3
    I worked in the ED for the last 12 years, so all through COVID and it flipped my life upside down. Nothing at all worked! The private/contracted group we all worked for went into bancruptcy and the hospital had to absorb us. They never had staffed the ED with midlevels and physicians so they had no clue how to handle us. For an entire year we were in limbo. They finally came up with the worst contracts in the world so all of the midlevels left. But the burnout was real. During those times the hospital was so short staffed that as a midlevel I had to wear all the hats! It was a miserable time and then when COVID disaster "ended" the place still was a mess. It did not improve much at all. The hospital administration didn't do anything to really help. We left!
  • 3d
    Really need employer to be understanding and supportive, or otherwise any indication of being stressed and overwhelmed on our parts does not lead to assistance but instead indicate signs of weakness and potential lack of productivity
  • 3d
    exercise, private time with family and loved ones, vacation
  • 3d
    Go to walk for 1 hr once come home from work at 5 pm
    Drink full glass of water
    Drink fresh berry smoothie
    While walking talk to 1-2 friends or relatives.
    Talk to patients what they do in their free time - yard work, wood crafting , cooking.
    Do stretches, palate exercises
    Try put boundaries on work at 5 pm and come home free without work load .
  • 3d
    honestly deep breath, be patient and leave it up to my Lord for guidance!!
  • 3d
    When I am "not fine", I sing. Singing can immediately raise spirits. I sing something cheerful, of course, not Otis Redding "Sittin on the Dock of the Bay", more like, "Hi ho, hi ho, it's home from work I go". Also, Psalm 100 works very well for me.
  • 3d
    2. A change in practice location or situation is a more durable option
  • 3d
    Take vacations generously, and really try to get away instead of a staycation. Even if it's a small road trip over a long weekend. The mental departure is most important, and is much easier to facilitate with a physical departure first.
  • 4d
    1
    I have set small boundaries such as not charting at home or logging in on my day off. Even this small effort has helped significantly.

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